Maybe I am single because I am a trash undateable human being.....

This post was inspired by a tweet I saw which reads " Maybe you're single because you are a trash human being who is completely undateable. Maybe"

Honestly, this tweet triggered me. It reminded me of comments people threw at me for being single for the longest time. I never thought something was wrong with that until PEOPLE tried to give me unsolicited advice on relationships, hook me up with people I could not even hold a conversation with and tell me life is about compromise (witchcraft), try to tell me how to keep a man/relationship and try to solve the mystery of why I am single and one of it being I am the PROBLEM.

What is interesting is that people do not know that I chose to be single, OK not really but yes! I will explain. I am single because I haven't met someone who wants to be in a relationship with me and who I want to be in a relationship with. For me, I am not down to be in a relationship just so that I am out of Singleville because, to be honest even if I tried, it would not be possible I am too honest with myself and I cherish my energy & space.I had people telling me about all the qualities of a certain man and how that man got potential but what I am looking for is not necessarily visible to everyone else. I might not be able to explain it but I'll know when I find it.

Another thing is I am generally a loner. I love to be alone, I like going to a coffee shop and have my coffee alone, I go shopping alone, I travel alone, I go to the cinema ALONE and the best time of my life is spent when I am alone. You know when I am alone I get to understand myself; I get to know what I truly like; I get to introspect; I get to dream, un-dream and re-dream; and I get to see life from my own perspective without anyone's influence. Although this might be strange to some people, I am the happiest when I am alone. So, being single does not mean I am lonely. I always laugh when people come to me asking if I finally have a man because I am glowing,  HONEY! the glow comes from within. When the Spirit is happy, the body responds. 

Lastly, I am a coward! I am weak! I am not the type of a woman who can put up with a man's BS! I really cannot put up with so many things that people in relationships put up with I am not that strong. Maybe I chose an easy way out of life, Maybe there isn't someone for me in this life, Maybe I am just a trash undateable human being... Either way, at this present moment I am complete. I am enough. I am living my best life. I am happy and that is all I need in this life. 

Till next week

Cheers!